Playground Politics, by Dr. Brad Schwall

Kids learn just as much on the playground as they do in the classroom.  The only difference is the subject.  On the playground and through their interactions with their peers, children learn about getting along with others, not getting along, and everything in between. 

In dealing with teasing, bullying, peer pressure, and conflicts, children can learn how to be assertive, solve problems, make good choices, accept differences, and give respect.

Every day, you shape how your children act.  It is your job to help your children be respectful of others and manage the conflicts that naturally occur among children.

Know What’s Happening

• Listen to your kids when they share about their day and their social interactions.

Empower Rather than Lecture

• Rather than give advice or criticize your children’s choices, help them brainstorm solutions to conflicts and difficult social situations.

Model Respectful Behavior

• Be careful to respect others and talk about others respectfully in front of your kids.  Kids imitate what they see.

Have a No-Tolerance Policy

• Consistently express that teasing others and treating others rudely and unfairly is unacceptable.

Build Your Kids Up

• Help your kids understand that they do not have to take the rude actions or words of others personally.  Teach them to be confident.

Help your kids navigate the world of social interaction.  They will face the same issues with peers now that they will face when they are adults.  You can give them a strong foundation for being socially resilient and respectful.  Be there.  Be aware.  Listen.  Give guidance.  Encourage problem-solving.  Love and affirm.